So, what does it mean to be dropped? It means to to let go of something and cause it to fall, either accidentally or intentionally, fall, or move to a lower position.

To the Married Woman

You're married to someone whom you love but don't trust.  How is it that you trusted them enough to marry, be intimate, and have children with, but you don't trust them to pay the bills or to be the man of the house?  You fuss all the time about everything that he do, not realizing that you gave him one opportunity to pay something and now you look at him as a failure.  Have you set your husband up for failure?  Just because you are strong in an area where he is weak, you have lost respect for him, that's not fair.  You say, well Sonya how did I set him up for failure?  What I mean by that is, you criticize everything that he do.  He goes to work every day brings home his check yet you criticize him for not paying a bill or doing what you say. You presented yourself as the housewife, one who would cook and then when he comes home to relax you fuss.  Many wives are complaining to the Lord about their husband saying, 'he isn't this or that,' also complaining to your friends and family about your husband and what or who he is not. Why are you exposing your husband's weakness?

Dropped women believe that they are always right even in the presence of the Lord.  Many wives verbal language becomes I will follow him as He follows Christ therefore she refuses to submit.  Not realizing that she isn't submitting the Lord either.  The word of God doesn't ask you if you feel like being submissive.  It doesn't tell us that it's God, woman, and then man. No there is a divine order.  The bible tells us to let it be your chaste conduct that wins your husband over that even without the word maybe won over to Christ.  Your husband needs to see the woman in you, loving, gentle, and kind not overbearing, demanding, controlling, and angry.  You must understand that the beauty of submission is that in the end you get what you want a leading man and a peaceful home.

Please Note: A dropped woman is verbally abusive because she never believes that anyone is good enough for the job this is why she does all of the house work.  No one can do it right!

To the single woman

Many single women placed their trust in every man that they meet.  So quick to trust men whom you just met to meet your children, be intimate, drive your car, take him out to dinner, and take care of him.  A single woman that has been dropped is so ready for love that when she prays to the Lord she gives Him a list of her desires.  The problem with the list is that she doesn't trust God to supply her with what He has for her.  Therefore, if a man doesn't met one of her request then she believes that he isn't the one.  A dropped single woman gives God a time line as to when He should move and when God doesn't move in her timing she becomes the hunter, seeking out the man that she wants.  A dropped single woman moves from one relationship to the next never allowing God to heal her.  A dropped single woman continuously male bash, yet the men that she criticizes are the one's that she wants and desire.  Her verbal language is of such, 'they don't know a good woman when they see it,' 'I know my Prince is going to come,' and yet doesn't work on herself by allowing God to prepare her to become a wife.  Just because you are alone doesn't mean that you are prepared.

A Dropped Mother

It's not fair to yell at your children because of what others have done.  It's not fair to get mad your child because they look like their father, you're really mad at him for hurting you.  It's not their fault.  Stop saying, you're going to end up just like your father?  You're mad at the people on your job it's not fair to go home yelling, fussing, and raising hell.  Your children didn't drop you, you're dropping them. You're putting them down with your words, it's not their fault.

Please Note: A dropped woman drops others and she cripples them.

Why are dropped women like this?

Somewhere along the way she has had many disappointments, regrets, which have caused her to become silently angry, bitter, and controlling.  She has many unanswered questions like why did they leave me?  Why wasn't my father around?  She has feelings of fear, unworthiness, unbelief, rejection, and abandonment.

Please Note: A dropped woman doesn't leave room for error.

Her heart is heavy and she desires to trust, she want her husband to lead her but someone before him lead her into some mess, a place where she didn't want to go and she refuse to let anyone else take her some where she doesn't desire to go.  She has a hard time being vulnerable because the last time she opened up her heart someone hurt her really bad and she now have a callous over her heart.  Even in the presence of the Lord she doesn't have freedom because she doesn't trust Him with all of her heart.  This is what the scripture means:

Trust in the Lord with all of thy heart and lean not unto your own understanding, to acknowledge Him in all of your ways and He shall direct your path.

The Lord tells us that, He isn't a man that He should lie;

The bible tells us that the Lord is our Shepherd I shall not want and that He leads us.

Do you really trust God as your Shepherd?  Do you believe that He has everything under control?

I want to tell the dropped women you don't have to play God; He can do a far better job than you ever could?  Rest in the Lord.

As I was writing He laid this scripture upon my heart to give to you:

So I went down to the potter's house, and I saw him working at the wheel.  But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him.  Then the word of the Lord came to me: 'O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?' declares the Lord.  "Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel.

Jeremiah 18:3-5

Sonya how do this scripture apply to me?  God wants you to know that you have been hurt, let down and disappointed and that His desire is to form you again.  When it said that the clay marred in His hand, it means that it was ruined.  God wants you trust Him with your whole heart, He cares about you.  He said that He would never leave you nor forsake you.  His arms are not short; He is more than able to carry you.

Please Note: A dropped woman's cry is, 'please don't hurt me.'

I will close with this.  If you approach God with a sinful attitude, getting what you want may prove costly. Rather completely depending upon God is essential, regardless of our level of spiritual maturity.  When we begin to rely on our own understanding, we are in danger of ignoring God's assessment of the situation.  Dropped women it is easier to trust God when you see Him move, but after while, in the routine of our daily lives, his strength may appear to diminish.  God doesn't change, but our view of Him often does.  I want you to know that God has you in the palm of His hands and He wants you to rest in Him.

Today, I encourage you to drop your guards and allow God to love on you.  Married women God told me to tell you to repent and go home to your husband and explain to him why you have been acting this way.  God said, He is getting ready to change someone's marriage you have been praying, fasting, and seeking Him.  He said not only is He going to change your marriage but also you in your marriage.

To the single woman God said let go of your list, time line and allow Him to do what only He can do, and make Him priority in your life instead of making a man your goal.

Beautifully Speaking,

Sonya

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